I had taken on the role of supporting him, figuring it would give my mother some time to heal herself. It had been two years of supporting him practically, financially and emotionally when he said something that really tested me.
A family friend had been visiting and made a comment on how much I had sacrificed to help out. My brother quipped, coldly:
“He just pays the rent.”
A blinding rage swelled inside but before I could even react, an unusual calm followed. His comment just… didn’t matter in that moment. Not enough to ruin the mood of the room.
Later, I asked my brother for clarity on his comment and he apologized for the way it had sounded. I knew the tools for managing my own energy had begun to integrate into my life. There was harmony, even if I couldn’t control what (or who) happened around me..